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The New Year provides an opportunity for pause
This time of year many look back by getting out their mental calculators
keeping scores of their victories and losses. Most of us hope this year will be
better than last. Others approach the New Year with mixed emotions hesitant to
let go of the past. Others make overly optimistic and unrealistic plans of how
their New Year will look.
Some believe that a good intention means a new beginning,
that on their own they can make a new start whenever they want. That would be
nice if it was that easy.
What treadmill are you on?
Change is inevitable, but what kind of change? Maybe we need to look at the
treadmills we’ve been on? Do we need to change our perspective from ‘this is
the way things ought to be according to me?’ Or, look at how we measure success, or maybe it’s living for the approval of others.
These treadmills don’t just distract us from a satisfying
life they can consume us
These perspectives can unknowingly trap and rule us. They can suck the
energy right out of us and leave us utterly empty. It’s not easy to let go of
all the mental stuff we insist we need for our tomorrow along with all the
stuff we continue to haul with us from our yesterdays.
One thing that we can all count on this New Year is
change
Some changes we gladly choose and others we don’t. Yet, more often than
not, despite our high hopes and best efforts we fail to change in the ways God
desires. We can’t just grit our teeth and force ourselves to act with
compassion. It’s not about trying harder on our own.
Yet, many of us have become far too passive in our pursuit
of change and wholeness, and peace. Could in our therapeutic
age we have fallen into the passive mindset of “talking through our problems”
or “dealing with our issues” or “discovering the roots of our brokenness in our
family of origin?”
But I see a more non-passive approach to change in the New
Testament. Namely, set your mind.
“Set your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth.” Colossians
3:2
Jesus isn’t interested in us being changed into people who
only become nicer and more agreeable. God does not ask us to accommodate Him but to live for Him. He has something far more different in mind for us this
New Year. God can change your life story this New Year. There is a better
way.
Live for what matters to God
All of us who have attempted change and failed to know if this year is going to be
any different, we need a new approach. Becoming what God desires of us is not a
quick-fix formula. It’s a heart change.
There are certain things and people we cannot change, but
there are changes we can make that can leave a lasting impact on other people’s
lives if we choose to live for what matters to God. God has been changing the hearts and minds of people and nations for thousands of years and He desires to
change yours’ and mine too.
Here’s the deal: God significantly changes our lives when we
live out a heart's cry of, “Not my will, but thy will be done. What do you want
me to do for You Lord?” And that will be
enough.
The God that changes not, changes everything!
Be grateful that His love for you will never change! That’s one thing you
can count on today and forever!
May your unfailing love be with us, Lord, even as we put
our hope in you. I have always been mindful of your unfailing love and have
lived in reliance on your faithfulness. Psalm 26:3; 33:22
