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Princeton philosopher Walter Kaufmann who coined the word ‘decidophobia’ says that human beings are
afraid of making decisions. We don’t want the anxiety that goes along with the
possibility of being wrong. Decisions can wear us out.
The other day I went to buy some blue jeans. I had to choose
from loose fit, boot cut, relaxed fit, distressed, acid washed, stonewashed,
preworn, straight cut, button fly, zipper fly… Choosing an entree can be so tough
that restaurant wait staff help us feel good about our meal selection by saying,
“great choice” to any entree decision we make.
Choosing thrills us
and scares us.
God wants us to learn to choose. Maybe that’s why there is no chapter in the Bible devoted to “How to Know God’s Will for Your Life.” The Apostle Paul doesn’t write about “Steps to determine if he’s the one” or “five ways to discern God’s job for you.”
God wants us to learn to choose. Maybe that’s why there is no chapter in the Bible devoted to “How to Know God’s Will for Your Life.” The Apostle Paul doesn’t write about “Steps to determine if he’s the one” or “five ways to discern God’s job for you.”
What we do see is “If any of you lack wisdom ask God and he will give generously and not hold
back.” James 1:5 and “This is my prayer for you that your love may abound more
in more in knowledge and depth of insight, so you may discern what is best.”
Philippians 1:9-10 God wants us to be good choosers.
When I’m facing
a choice and I want to find God’s will for my life I don’t need to ask which is
God’s choice for my life, but rather I need to begin by asking for wisdom. We
make decisions and then the decisions make us.
What I think, what I read, where I go, who I’m with what I do, how I work. Add up the 1.5 million little decisions we make in our lifetime and what we get is a life. We go through doors and we discover on the other side the person we’ve become.
What I think, what I read, where I go, who I’m with what I do, how I work. Add up the 1.5 million little decisions we make in our lifetime and what we get is a life. We go through doors and we discover on the other side the person we’ve become.
The people who choose doors
well, the Bible calls wise.
Not lucky. Not wealthy. Not successful. Wisdom in the Bible is not the same thing as having a high IQ or an advanced educational degree. Wisdom in the Bible is the ability to make great decisions.
Not lucky. Not wealthy. Not successful. Wisdom in the Bible is not the same thing as having a high IQ or an advanced educational degree. Wisdom in the Bible is the ability to make great decisions.
The biggest difference between people who flourish in life and those who don’t is not money, health, talent, connections or looks. It’s wisdom - the ability to make good decisions. Too often we don’t think to ask for wisdom until we’re facing a big decision. But Paul writes, “Whenever we have an opportunity, let us work for the good of all.” Galatians 6:10
Every day we have open doors
Doors are everywhere. Choosing doors is always a process. I see opportunities identify options and learn. If I only wait for the big decisions to come my ability to choose will be underdeveloped. It’s good to practice ahead of time with everyday street wisdom before the Big Door decisions arrive and they will.
Doors are everywhere. Choosing doors is always a process. I see opportunities identify options and learn. If I only wait for the big decisions to come my ability to choose will be underdeveloped. It’s good to practice ahead of time with everyday street wisdom before the Big Door decisions arrive and they will.
There is always
an open door for us to choose! God provides open doors for us to make wise
choices. Are you ready for that door? How will you discern which door to walk
through and if it is from God?
Join us next
time as we explore the myths about open doors.
